Chahat jo rukti nahi, aur sukoon jo
dheere-dheere chhoot jaata hai
Chahat har ek insaan ki alag hoti hai.Kisi ko paisa chahiye,kisi ko pyaar,kisi ko pehchan,aur kisi ko sirf thoda sa sukoon.
Lekin kabhi humne yeh socha hai ki kya hamari chahat kabhi khatam hogi?
Shayad nahi.Kyunki jaise-jaise ek chahat poori hoti hai,waise-hi ek nayi chahat janam le leti hai.
“Kash ye bhi mil jaaye…”
“Bas woh bhi ho jaaye…”
Aur isi aur-aur ke chakkar me hum apna aaj, apni present moment, aur apna sukoon kahin peeche chhod dete hain.
1. Chahat: Zarurat Se Zyada Ban Jaaye To Bojh Ban Jaati Ha
Insaan ka dil hamesha kuch aur chahta hai.Ek khwaahish poori hoti hai, aur uske saath hi ek nayi umeed janam le leti hai. Shayad yahi zindagi ka sabse gehra sach hai — hum rukna nahi jaante.
Kabhi hum zyada paisa chahte hain,kabhi zyada pehchan,kabhi zyada pyaar,aur kabhi bas wo jo kisi aur ke paas hai.
Problem chahne me nahi hoti.Problem tab shuru hoti hai jab hum yeh bhool jaate hain ki kitna kaafi hota hai.
Hum itne busy ho jaate hain future ki soch me ki present hume bekaar lagne lagta hai.Jo aaj hai, wo kam lagta hai.Jo paas hai, wo insufficient lagta hai.Aur jo nahi mila, wahi sabse zaroori lagne lagta hai.
Is process me hum dheere-dheere:
- Apni shanti kho dete hain
- Apni khushi postpone kar dete hain
- Aur apni zindagi ko compare karna shuru kar dete hain
Comparison ek aisi aadat hai jo dil ko kabhi satisfied hone hi nahi deti.Chahe aap kitna bhi haasil kar lo, mann hamesha bolega — “thoda aur.”
Par kabhi aapne socha hai,agar “aur” ka silsila kabhi khatam hi na ho,toh hum chain se jeeyenge kab?
Zindagi ka bojh aksar responsibilities nahi hoti,balki wo expectations hoti hain jo hum khud par daal dete hain.
Jab hum har pal sirf ye sochte rehte hain ki:
- Aage kya milega
- Aur kya achieve karna hai
- Aur kaun humse aage nikal gaya
Tab hum ye bhool jaate hain ki hum abhi bhi zinda hain,abhi bhi saans le rahe hain,aur abhi bhi kuch pal aise hain jo sirf mehsoos karne ke liye bane hain.
Shayad asli samajhdari ye nahi hai ki hum chahna chhod dein,balki ye hai ki hum har chahat ko apni shanti par bhaari na hone dein.
Kyuki jab mann bhara hua hota hai,tab kam me bhi sukoon mil jaata hai.Aur jab mann khaali hota hai,tab sab kuch hote hue bhi kuch nahi lagta.
2. Jab Aaj Kam Aur Kal Sab Kuch Lagta Hai
Hum aksar kehte hain:“Bas ye mil jaaye, phir main khush ho jaunga.”
Par jaise hi wo milta hai,khushi ka duration bahut chhota hota hai.Fir naya goal, nayi race, nayi tension.
Is process me hum bhool jaate hain ki:
- Aaj bhi hum zinda hain
- Aaj bhi kuch cheezein theek chal rahi hain
- Aaj bhi kuch pal sirf mehsoos karne ke liye bane hain
Par hum un palon ko dekhte hi nahi,kyunki nazar hamesha aage hoti hai.
Aaj ko kam samajhna,kal ko ideal banana —yeh aadat hume kabhi present me jeene hi nahi deti.
3. Sukoon Koi Achievement Nahi, Ek State of Mind Hai
Sukoon kisi checklist ka item nahi hota.Ye koi medal nahi jo jeetne ke baad mil jaaye.
Sukoon tab aata hai jab:
- Aap khud se ladna band kar dete ho
- Har cheez control karne ki zid chhod dete ho
- Aur jo hai, uske saath thoda sa shant rehna seekh lete ho
Zindagi perfect tab nahi hoti jab sab mil jaata hai,balki tab hoti hai jab kam me bhi dil bhara hua mehsoos kare.
4. Jab Mann Bhar Jaata Hai, To Kam Bhi Kaafi Lagta Hai
Kabhi notice kiya hai —jab mann shant hota hai,toh simple si cheez bhi khushi de jaati hai?
Aur jab mann bechain hota hai,toh sab kuch hote hue bhi kuch theek nahi lagta.Isliye asli kaam bahar nahi,andar hota hai.
Khud se poochna:
- Kya main sach me aur chah raha hoon?
- Ya main bas compare kar raha hoon?
- Ya main kisi aur ki definition of success jee raha hoon?
Jab yeh clarity aa jaati hai,tab zindagi dheere-dheere halka lagne lagti hai.
5. Thoda Rukna Bhi Zindagi Ka Hissa Hai
Har waqt aage badhna zaroori nahi.Kabhi-kabhi rukna, saans lena, aur peeche dekhna bhi zaroori hota hai.
Ruk kar ye dekhna ki:
- Kitna door aa chuke ho
- Kitna sambhal liya hai
- Aur kitna seekh chuke ho
Zindagi sirf paane ka naam nahi,samajhne ka naam bhi hai.Aur jab hum samajhna shuru kar dete hain,tab chahatein hume chalati nahi —hum chahaton ko chalana seekh lete hain.
Psychology of Desire & Happiness
Conclusion: Jab “Aur” Se Aage Kuch Aur Milta Hai
Shayad zindagi ka sabse bada lesson ye hai ki har cheez mil jaane ke baad hi sukoon mile, ye zaroori nahi.
Kabhi-kabhi sukoon tab milta hai jab hum keh dete hain —“Jo hai, filhaal kaafi hai.”
Aur wahi pal hota hai jab zindagi bhaari nahi,balki thodi si aasaan lagne lagti hai 🌿
Before You Scroll Away…
Is post ko padhte hue agar kahin bhi aap ruk gaye ho,
agar koi line aapke dil ke paas aa kar thodi der thehar gayi ho —
toh shayad ye sirf padhna nahi tha, balki mehsoos karna tha.
Aaj khud se ek chhota sa sawaal poochiye:kya main jo chaah raha/rahi hoon, wo meri zindagi ko halka bana raha hai ya bhaari?
💬 Neeche likhiye —
ek aisi cheez jo aap aaj chhod sakte ho,taaki kal thoda aur chain mehsoos kar sakein.Kabhi-kabhi likh dena hi pehla step hota hai. 🌿